You need five factors:
1. Be a leader of men. Evolutionary women are attracted to tribe leaders.
This implies social status. Being a friend of a leader of men also counts, although it decreases your chances.
2. Pre selected by women. If you have girls on your side most of the time, the girl you would like to date will most likely be interested in why you attract others. This pre selection of women needs to be social and none sexual if you would like to date 'that other girl'.
Pre selection of women also saves you from being a threat. If you enter a club with a girl, even if it's not a date, you'll loose the threat sign because you already entered with a women.
3. Protection of loved ones. You need to make clear that you're not in for a booty call. You shouldn't give the girl your heart or tell her that you will take care of her. But you should make clear, very subtle, that you won't leave her after sex, even if a girl wants you to. Yes girls also sometimes like to be left alone after sex. Protection of loved ones is about the feeling you give her. You need to bring trust.
*this is the hardest to achieve
4. Be the prize. You don't need that girl. She needs you. You don't necessarily want that girl. She wants you. Give her the feeling that she's actually hitting on you instead of you hitting on her.
If you have achieved these four points there is one thing left to do.
5. Get her sexual drive to notice yours. You can be sensual by talking slow, talking clearly, take moments of silence and lower your voice.
If you ain't talking, use your body. By being a little intimidating with your body you should trigger her sexual system. Stepping slowly closer to her. Bend you head slightly her way. If you execute this right you will make her giggle and move her away from what she was telling you. If that happens you know you're on the right track.
False time contraint is also very helpful. Make her feel that you actually don't have that much time to talk to her. That she isn't 'that' important. But if she buys you a drink you could stay a little longer.
Ardit Bajraktari says you could also sleep with her friends. That's a bad idea. If you've dated or slept with her friend(s) only a slut will date you. But if you date or sleep with girls just outside the first line of friends than you're safe. And than there will be talked about you, even when you suck in bed.
1. Be a leader of men. Evolutionary women are attracted to tribe leaders.
This implies social status. Being a friend of a leader of men also counts, although it decreases your chances.
2. Pre selected by women. If you have girls on your side most of the time, the girl you would like to date will most likely be interested in why you attract others. This pre selection of women needs to be social and none sexual if you would like to date 'that other girl'.
Pre selection of women also saves you from being a threat. If you enter a club with a girl, even if it's not a date, you'll loose the threat sign because you already entered with a women.
3. Protection of loved ones. You need to make clear that you're not in for a booty call. You shouldn't give the girl your heart or tell her that you will take care of her. But you should make clear, very subtle, that you won't leave her after sex, even if a girl wants you to. Yes girls also sometimes like to be left alone after sex. Protection of loved ones is about the feeling you give her. You need to bring trust.
*this is the hardest to achieve
4. Be the prize. You don't need that girl. She needs you. You don't necessarily want that girl. She wants you. Give her the feeling that she's actually hitting on you instead of you hitting on her.
If you have achieved these four points there is one thing left to do.
5. Get her sexual drive to notice yours. You can be sensual by talking slow, talking clearly, take moments of silence and lower your voice.
If you ain't talking, use your body. By being a little intimidating with your body you should trigger her sexual system. Stepping slowly closer to her. Bend you head slightly her way. If you execute this right you will make her giggle and move her away from what she was telling you. If that happens you know you're on the right track.
False time contraint is also very helpful. Make her feel that you actually don't have that much time to talk to her. That she isn't 'that' important. But if she buys you a drink you could stay a little longer.
Ardit Bajraktari says you could also sleep with her friends. That's a bad idea. If you've dated or slept with her friend(s) only a slut will date you. But if you date or sleep with girls just outside the first line of friends than you're safe. And than there will be talked about you, even when you suck in bed.
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